




Watching Jamie with Asher and Soren has been really beautiful. As I predicted, this fathering gig has seemed quite effortless for him. He changed his first diaper EVER in the NICU, which was a huge accomplishment considering it was in an isolette with a nurse hovering over him.
To allow me precious sleep, Jamie took over the night feedings during his time off from work. He fed Soren and Asher during the midnight, 3am, and often 6am feedings. What a blessing! Even though I had to get up to pump every three hours--knowing I could go right back to sleep was a HUGE luxury. I fondly associate the sound of Jamie burping a chirpy baby with those late night pumping sessions.
As a result of having all night long with the baby babes, Jamie is confident in the way he engages Asher and Soren. He changes diapers like he has been doing it for years and he can get a onesie on a fidgety baby in record time. I think it was good for him to have ownership over that time so that he could handle the babies on his own without me telling him what to 'do.' Now HE gives me tips on how to best burp Asher or the best feeding position for Soren.
Fathers just do things differently...I'm sooo happy that Asher and Soren have Jamie as a father. He sings them silly songs and hugs and kissses them with great vigor. He is basically the baby whisperer because during those times when both boys get worked up and their chirping transitions into yelps of distress, Jamie will walk into their room and all he has to do is start talking and they immediately quiet, completely comforted by his voice.
I love those boys!