Playing in water--sprinklers, pools, creeks, rivers, lakes and the ocean--is such a simple summer enjoyment. On a particularly hot and humid day we found refreshment in the little creek behind Green Spring Garden. Kids slipped, fell, waded and sat right in the water. They just let it rip and had a great time. We spotted all sorts of riparian creatures and shared a fun outing with friends.
A pleasant afternoon turned super ugly on the way home. I had brought a change of clothes for the kids knowing they would get soaked in the creek. We had planned on getting pizza for lunch afterwards so the dry clothes were not just necessary but practical. Well, turns out I forgot dry underwear for the boys. I didn't think they would mind going commando and Asher didn't but Soren was adamant about not taking off his wet underwear if he didn't have a dry replacement pair. We were tired, soggy and hungry. I tried and tried to get him to just go without undies for a half hour but he cried and his stubbornness turned me into a crazy lady. I practically yelled at him and if anyone had passed by our car they would have either hid for fear of my wrath or called the police. Even in the middle of my craziness I knew I was overreacting and being a terrible person and I still didn't stop. I finally gave up and we went home--Soren sitting in his wet underwear and Asher and Maeve crying for pizza. If I could have put myself in time out I would have.
When we got home I apologized to Soren and said I was sorry for the way I acted. He told me to remember dry underwear next time. If only it were that simple! The rest of the day went really well and we were all super excited that daddy was coming home the next morning. I've noticed that the weeks and days before Jamie comes home are some of the most trying for me because the weight and stress of being a single mom and having a husband in a violent country nearly crush me. Sadly, that crushing feeling came out and the result was not pretty. Happily, Soren is over it and we've moved on and life is good again.